Maa Shaa Allah sis! This article was speaking to me. My husband and I also do not hit or inflict fear in our child. But we’re quite worried that our child doesn’t do what we tell him to do. Alhamdulillah! This article has made me realize that the goal is not to get the child to obey but to develop his own unique personality through cooperation and mutual respect. JazakiLlahu khayr.